Sunday, 29 December 2013

Beginning of the wedding experiment / battle

It's a well known planning a wedding is no easy affair. But somehow I feel that the differences in tastes, wealth, outlook, cultures that I am experiencing from various stakeholders as a global desi with a global desi wife to be are making it a little harder. And I'm sure I haven't listed out all the differences. This is by far the biggest challenge I have faced in my life. 

As a small town boy from a simple background growing up in one of the world's greatest capital cities, tastes change. However, this cannot be said of one's parents in the same scenario because they haven't grown up here and are still measuring things in rupee value despite earning in pounds. But they do have a major say in my wedding unless I'm to disown them. Result: differences on top of the generational gap which results in heated arguments over every decision to be made in process - of which there are lots ! 

Add to this the spouse's side which is from a different culture and hails from the land of luxury - Dubai. 

Luckily the bride, the groom and their respective parents have some common values which I will hope will bring us through this entire process. 


Tuesday, 17 May 2011

Another gem from wikipedia

I quote wikipedia contributors:



Charles Eames was fascinated by the lota and considered it significant because it has become, over its evolution, exactly right. The design of the lota addresses the need of retrieving, carrying, storing, and pouring water.[3] In his The India Report, he expressed a great admiration for the lota and had the following to say about its design:[4]

“ Of all the objects we have seen and admired during our visit to India, the lota, that simple vessel of everyday use, stands out as perhaps the greatest, the most beautiful. The village women have a process which, with the use of tamarind and ash, each day turns this brass into gold. But how would one go about designing a Lota? First one would have to shut out all preconceived ideas on the subject and then begin to consider factor after factor:
The optimum amount of liquid to be fetched, carried, poured and stored in a prescribed set of circumstances.
The size and strength and gender of the hands (if hands) that would manipulate it.
The way it is to be transported – head, hip, hand, basket or cart.
The balance, the center of gravity, when empty, when full, its balance when rotated for pouring.
The fluid dynamics of the problem not only when pouring but when filling and cleaning, and under the complicated motions of head carrying – slow and fast.
Its sculpture as it fits the palm of the hand, the curve of the hip.
Its sculpture as compliment to the rhythmic motion of walking or a static post at the well.
The relation of opening to volume in terms of storage uses – and objects other than liquid.
The size of the opening and inner contour in terms of cleaning.
The texture inside and out in terms of cleaning and feeling.
Heat transfer – can it be grasped if the liquid is hot?
How pleasant does it feel, eyes closed, eyes open?
How pleasant does it sound, when it strikes another vessel, is set down on ground or stone, empty or full – or being poured into?
What is the possible material?
What is its cost in terms of working?
What is its cost in terms of ultimate service?
What kind of an investment does the material provide as product, as salvage?
How will the material affect the contents, etc., etc.?
How will it look as the sun reflects off its surface?
How does it feel to possess it, to sell it, to give it ?

Saturday, 2 April 2011

Tune of the Decade

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4pUrpBbbH7Q&feature=youtube_gdata_player


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Saturday, 25 December 2010

Indian achievers # 2

Today, I discovered Fareed Zakaria, an Indian-American who has recently become Editor at large of Time magazine, with previous contributions including the likes of Newsweek. He is counted amongst the most influential journalists, a merit which has seen him being awarded the Padma Bushan.


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Monday, 19 July 2010

English lesson to self

This sort of English, I can have no love for:

- "I am based out of London" (I am based IN London)

- "I did that out of choice" (I did that WITH choice)

- "inflammable" (FLAMMABLE!!)


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Wednesday, 2 June 2010

Things I miss about India # 3

Discovering genius in random places. Case in point:

Monday, 8 February 2010

Desi work attitudes

Desis are a hard working lot. It's clearly evident in the sweat of the labourer or the aggressiveness of the multinational corporation leader.

We strive to achieve a better life for ourself / our family / our country and make many sacrifices in the process.

But at the end of the day it's quality not quantity that counts.

I live abroad and I see footballs and cricket balls 'made in pakistan', wallets and shoes 'made in india' often. A sign of quality ? Perhaps.

But I am also surrounded by the Apple, Google, and Sony-s of the world. Symbols of quality? Undeniably yes. No desi names there.

A pardigm shift is needed for this to change, and yes it's beginning to happen, but to those who say we're conquering the world, please - we have a long way to go.


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